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View my LinkedIn ProfileRebecca A. Provder is a partner in Moses & Singer’s Matrimonial and Family Law practice. Rebecca represents individuals in matrimonial and family law matters, such as divorce, equitable distribution, custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support, relocation, separation agreements, issues relating to same-sex couples, prenuptial agreements, postnuptial agreements, cohabitation agreements, appeals, and post-judgment cases. She also is a certified mediator and collaborative law attorney.
Rebecca endeavors from the outset to achieve a favorable settlement for clients without litigation. However, in situations where the parties are unable to reach an amicable settlement, Rebecca is a strong and passionate advocate on behalf of her clients. She is a skilled litigator who has experience handling complex financial matters and custody cases from inception to conclusion.
Rebecca prides herself on client relations, recognizing that when people are going through a divorce it is likely one of the most difficult times they will go through. Therefore, Rebecca is extremely attentive to clients and readily available to them. She walks them through the process step-by-step, and keeps them thoroughly informed throughout their case. She takes the time to get to know her clients, which she believes leads to a better result because she has a thorough understanding of their concerns and goals.
Rebecca is recognized as a Super Lawyer in the 2017 and 2018 New York Metro Super Lawyers®. She was recognized as a Rising Star in the 2013 to 2016 New York Metro Super Lawyers®.
- New York Women's Bar Association (Matrimonial and Family Law Committee)
- New York State Bar Association
- "Prenups 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, January 2019
- "What Therapists Need to Know About Tying and Untying the Knot," William Alanson White Institute Couples Therapy Training and Education Program, May 2018.
- "Untying the Knot: Mat Law 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, April 2018.
- "It's All About the Benjamins: What Advisors and Their Clients Should Know About the New Tax Act," Moses & Singer LLP/Marks Paneth LLP Program, March 2018.
- "Matrimonial Planning After the TCJA of 2017," LISI Webinar, February 2018.
- "Family Law and Family Dynamics: All About Prenups," Moses & Singer LLP, October 2017.
- "The Gray Divorce: Special Considerations for Divorcing After 50," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc. CLE Program, September 2017.
- "Trusts: Planning and Drafting for Divorce," Shenkman Law Webinar, June 2017.
- "Protecting Trust Assets from Divorce - From Prenups to Self-Settled Trusts," Anti-Defamation League, May 2017.
- "Pre and Post-Nup Clauses to Address Trust Issues," Shenkman Law Webinar, March 2017.
- "Until Death or Divorce Do We Part," American Bar Association Real Property Trusts and Estates Section Group Call, June 2016.
- "Till Death Do Us Part: Marriage, Divorce, Prenups & Estate Administration," New York State Society of CPAs Trust & Estate Taxation Conference, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Citrin Cooperman, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc., November 2015.
- "Everything a Financial Planner Needs to Know About Marriage and Divorce," New York State Society of CPAs Financial Planning Conference, July 2015.
- "What To Do Before and After You Say I Do," AXA Advisors Annual LGBT Summit, June 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," Estate Planning Council of New York City, Estate Planners' Day, April 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," February 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," November 2014.
- Family Court Review Journal
- Moot Court Association
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, May 2018.
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Daily Tax Report, April 2018.
- Co-Author: "Divorce Planning After the 2017 Tax Act," Bloomberg Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, January 2018.
- Co-Author: "Ferri v. Powell-Ferri: A Critical Planning Case for Practitioners," The Matrimonial Strategist, December 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: The Domestic Violence Version," Resident Community Blog, December 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: The Ins and Outs of Moving Out," Resident Community Blog, November 2017.
- Author: "Family Law For Real Housewives: Ramona, Mario & The Gray Divorce," Resident Community Blog, October 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: How A Prenup Can Help," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives Quickie: What About An Annulment?," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: Is It About Tom?," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Co-author: "Parental Alienation During and After the Divorce," New York Law Journal, July 2017.
- Co-author: "The Gray Divorce Phenomenon," New York Law Journal, July 2016.
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- Pre and Post-Nup Clauses to Address Trust Issues Webinar March 6, 2017
- Until Death or Divorce Do We Part June 16, 2016
- Till Death Do Us Part: Marriage, Divorce, Prenups and Estate Administration December 15, 2015
- 'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part November 19, 2015
- Everything a Financial Planner Needs to Know About Marriage and Divorce July 15, 2015
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- Divorce Planning After the 2017 Tax Act January 8, 2018
- Ferri v. Powell-Ferri: A Critical Planning Case for Practitioners December 1, 2017
- Parental Alienation During and After Divorce July 31, 2017
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Rebecca A. Provder is a partner in Moses & Singer’s Matrimonial and Family Law practice. Rebecca represents individuals in matrimonial and family law matters, such as divorce, equitable distribution, custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support, relocation, separation agreements, issues relating to same-sex couples, prenuptial agreements, postnuptial agreements, cohabitation agreements, appeals, and post-judgment cases. She also is a certified mediator and collaborative law attorney.
Rebecca endeavors from the outset to achieve a favorable settlement for clients without litigation. However, in situations where the parties are unable to reach an amicable settlement, Rebecca is a strong and passionate advocate on behalf of her clients. She is a skilled litigator who has experience handling complex financial matters and custody cases from inception to conclusion.
Rebecca prides herself on client relations, recognizing that when people are going through a divorce it is likely one of the most difficult times they will go through. Therefore, Rebecca is extremely attentive to clients and readily available to them. She walks them through the process step-by-step, and keeps them thoroughly informed throughout their case. She takes the time to get to know her clients, which she believes leads to a better result because she has a thorough understanding of their concerns and goals.
Rebecca is recognized as a Super Lawyer in the 2017 and 2018 New York Metro Super Lawyers®. She was recognized as a Rising Star in the 2013 to 2016 New York Metro Super Lawyers®.
- New York Women's Bar Association (Matrimonial and Family Law Committee)
- New York State Bar Association
- "Prenups 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, January 2019
- "What Therapists Need to Know About Tying and Untying the Knot," William Alanson White Institute Couples Therapy Training and Education Program, May 2018.
- "Untying the Knot: Mat Law 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, April 2018.
- "It's All About the Benjamins: What Advisors and Their Clients Should Know About the New Tax Act," Moses & Singer LLP/Marks Paneth LLP Program, March 2018.
- "Matrimonial Planning After the TCJA of 2017," LISI Webinar, February 2018.
- "Family Law and Family Dynamics: All About Prenups," Moses & Singer LLP, October 2017.
- "The Gray Divorce: Special Considerations for Divorcing After 50," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc. CLE Program, September 2017.
- "Trusts: Planning and Drafting for Divorce," Shenkman Law Webinar, June 2017.
- "Protecting Trust Assets from Divorce - From Prenups to Self-Settled Trusts," Anti-Defamation League, May 2017.
- "Pre and Post-Nup Clauses to Address Trust Issues," Shenkman Law Webinar, March 2017.
- "Until Death or Divorce Do We Part," American Bar Association Real Property Trusts and Estates Section Group Call, June 2016.
- "Till Death Do Us Part: Marriage, Divorce, Prenups & Estate Administration," New York State Society of CPAs Trust & Estate Taxation Conference, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Citrin Cooperman, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc., November 2015.
- "Everything a Financial Planner Needs to Know About Marriage and Divorce," New York State Society of CPAs Financial Planning Conference, July 2015.
- "What To Do Before and After You Say I Do," AXA Advisors Annual LGBT Summit, June 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," Estate Planning Council of New York City, Estate Planners' Day, April 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," February 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," November 2014.
- Family Court Review Journal
- Moot Court Association
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, May 2018.
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Daily Tax Report, April 2018.
- Co-Author: "Divorce Planning After the 2017 Tax Act," Bloomberg Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, January 2018.
- Co-Author: "Ferri v. Powell-Ferri: A Critical Planning Case for Practitioners," The Matrimonial Strategist, December 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: The Domestic Violence Version," Resident Community Blog, December 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: The Ins and Outs of Moving Out," Resident Community Blog, November 2017.
- Author: "Family Law For Real Housewives: Ramona, Mario & The Gray Divorce," Resident Community Blog, October 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: How A Prenup Can Help," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives Quickie: What About An Annulment?," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives: Is It About Tom?," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Author: "Family Law for Real Housewives," Resident Community Blog, August 2017.
- Co-author: "Parental Alienation During and After the Divorce," New York Law Journal, July 2017.
- Co-author: "The Gray Divorce Phenomenon," New York Law Journal, July 2016.
- Hofstra University School of Law (J.D.)
- Emory University (B.A.)
- New York
- New Jersey
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- Moses & Singer Attorneys Achieve Super Lawyers Status
- Moses & Singer Attorneys Achieve Super Lawyers Status
- Super Lawyers Honors 41 Moses & Singer Attorneys in 2015 New York Metro Edition
- Super Lawyers Honors 36 Moses & Singer Attorneys in 2014 New York Metro Edition
- Moses & Singer Women Attorneys Featured in New York Times Magazine
- Super Lawyers Announces List of Winning Moses & Singer Attorneys
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- Family Law and Family Dynamics: All About Prenups
- Trusts: Planning and Drafting for Divorce
- Protecting Trust Assets from Divorce - From Prenups to Self-Settled Trusts
- Pre and Post-Nup Clauses to Address Trust Issues Webinar
- Until Death or Divorce Do We Part
- Till Death Do Us Part: Marriage, Divorce, Prenups and Estate Administration
- 'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part
- Everything a Financial Planner Needs to Know About Marriage and Divorce
- What To Do Before and After You Say I Do
- Love, Death and Divorce - Integrating Marital Law with Estate and Financial Planning
- Love, Death and Divorce
- Love, Death and Divorce
- Do Prenuptial Agreements Hold Up?
- Prenup Tutorial: A Survey of Recent Case Law
- Swipe Right for a Prenup
- Swipe Right for a Prenup
- Divorce Planning After the 2017 Tax Act
- Ferri v. Powell-Ferri: A Critical Planning Case for Practitioners
- Parental Alienation During and After Divorce
- Trust Issues: Pre- And Post-Nuptial Clauses
- Trust Issues: Pre- And Post-Nuptial Clauses
- The Gray Divorce Phenomenon
- Coming to America - Love, Marriage and Immigration
- 'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part
- What CPAs Need to Know about Tying and Untying the Knot
- New Spousal Support Guidelines & Other Changes in Matrimonial Law
- Exploring the Impact of Domestic Violence on Domestic Relations
- The Crossroads of Immigration and Family Law
- Matrimonial & Family Law Practice Group Newsletter
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"I can't express in words how grateful I am for all the things you've done for me and [my child]. You will always have a special place in our hearts, and if you don't mind I would love to consider you my friend not only my lawyer."
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"My lawyer: Dear and trusted. Steadfast and fights to the bloody end. My motivator: Who motivates but mostly inspires. Rebecca your devotion to my case will never be forgotten."
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“As sad as it is, I’m very relieved to finally have this behind me. I can’t thank you enough for all your help and guidance over the last several months. I really appreciate all of your time and effort spent on my behalf and fighting to get me the best settlement possible.”
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"You are amazing and matter so much to many of us you help along the way. I can't thank you enough."
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"Thank you very much for all your help. Your patience and good advice were crucial to bring this situation to a quick end."
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"Thank you, you are truly the best!"
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"I am still thankful for your advice from last summer; I am sure many others are similarly grateful."
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