Rebecca A. Provder is a partner in Moses & Singer’s Matrimonial and Family Law practice. Rebecca represents individuals in matrimonial and family law matters, such as divorce, equitable distribution, custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support, relocation, separation agreements, issues relating to same-sex couples, prenuptial agreements, postnuptial agreements, cohabitation agreements, appeals, and post-judgment cases. She also is a certified mediator and collaborative law attorney.
Rebecca endeavors from the outset to achieve a favorable settlement for clients without litigation. However, in situations where the parties are unable to reach an amicable settlement, Rebecca is a strong and passionate advocate on behalf of her clients. She is a skilled litigator who has experience handling complex financial matters and custody cases from inception to conclusion.
Rebecca prides herself on client relations, recognizing that when people are going through a divorce it is likely one of the most difficult times they will go through. Therefore, Rebecca is extremely attentive to clients and readily available to them. She walks them through the process step-by-step, and keeps them thoroughly informed throughout their case. She takes the time to get to know her clients, which she believes leads to a better result because she has a thorough understanding of their concerns and goals.
Rebecca is recognized as a Super Lawyer in the 2017 to 2020 New York Metro Super Lawyers®. She was recognized as a Rising Star in the 2013 to 2016 New York Metro Super Lawyers®. Rebecca was also selected by The Best Lawyers in America (2021 Edition) for her work in Family Law.
- New York Women's Bar Association (Matrimonial and Family Law Committee)
- New York State Bar Association
- "Women & Wealth: Planning Challenges and Strategies for Female Clients," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc., September 2019
- "Prenups 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, January 2019.
- "What Therapists Need to Know About Tying and Untying the Knot," William Alanson White Institute Couples Therapy Training and Education Program, May 2018.
- "Untying the Knot: Mat Law 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, April 2018.
- "It's All About the Benjamins: What Advisors and Their Clients Should Know About the New Tax Act," Moses & Singer LLP/Marks Paneth LLP Program, March 2018.
- "Matrimonial Planning After the TCJA of 2017," LISI Webinar, February 2018.
- "Family Law and Family Dynamics: All About Prenups," Moses & Singer LLP, October 2017.
- "The Gray Divorce: Special Considerations for Divorcing After 50," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc. CLE Program, September 2017.
- "Trusts: Planning and Drafting for Divorce," Shenkman Law Webinar, June 2017.
- "Protecting Trust Assets from Divorce - From Prenups to Self-Settled Trusts," Anti-Defamation League, May 2017.
- "Pre and Post-Nup Clauses to Address Trust Issues," Shenkman Law Webinar, March 2017.
- "Until Death or Divorce Do We Part," American Bar Association Real Property Trusts and Estates Section Group Call, June 2016.
- "Till Death Do Us Part: Marriage, Divorce, Prenups & Estate Administration," New York State Society of CPAs Trust & Estate Taxation Conference, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Citrin Cooperman, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc., November 2015.
- "Everything a Financial Planner Needs to Know About Marriage and Divorce," New York State Society of CPAs Financial Planning Conference, July 2015.
- "What To Do Before and After You Say I Do," AXA Advisors Annual LGBT Summit, June 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," Estate Planning Council of New York City, Estate Planners' Day, April 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," February 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," November 2014.
- Family Court Review Journal
- Moot Court Association
- Quoted, "21 of the Weirdest Prenup Demands Lawyers Have Ever Seen," Cosmopolitan, October 2019.
- Quoted, "Thinking About Ending Your Marriage? You Might Want To Talk To A Divorce Lawyer First," Refinery29, May 2019.
- Quoted, "How Wendy Williams Is Quickly Untangling Kevin Hunter From Her Life After Filing For Divorce," E-News, April 2019.
- Author, "Divorce & The Next Generation," Divorce Magazine, May 2019.
- Co-Author: "Do Prenuptial Agreements Hold Up?," December 2018.
- Co-Author: "Prenup Tutorial: A Survey of Recent Case Law." New York Law Journal, July 2018.
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, May 2018.
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Daily Tax Report, April 2018.
- Co-Author: "Divorce Planning After the 2017 Tax Act," Bloomberg Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, January 2018.
- Co-Author: "Ferri v. Powell-Ferri: A Critical Planning Case for Practitioners," The Matrimonial Strategist, December 2017.
- Co-author: "Parental Alienation During and After the Divorce," New York Law Journal, July 2017.
- Co-author: "Trust Issues: Pre- And Post-Nuptial Clauses," Part 2 of 2, Law Journal Newsletters, The Matrimonial Strategist, December 2016.
- Co-author: "Trust Issues: Pre- And Post-Nuptial Clauses," Part 1 0f 2, Law Journal Newsletters, The Matrimonial Strategist, November 2016.
- Co-author: "The Gray Divorce Phenomenon," New York Law Journal, July 2016.
- Co-author: "Coming to America - Love, Marriage and Immigration," The Tax Stringer - NYSSCPA's Online Tax Publication, June 2016.
Rebecca A. Provder is a partner in Moses & Singer’s Matrimonial and Family Law practice. Rebecca represents individuals in matrimonial and family law matters, such as divorce, equitable distribution, custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support, relocation, separation agreements, issues relating to same-sex couples, prenuptial agreements, postnuptial agreements, cohabitation agreements, appeals, and post-judgment cases. She also is a certified mediator and collaborative law attorney.
Rebecca endeavors from the outset to achieve a favorable settlement for clients without litigation. However, in situations where the parties are unable to reach an amicable settlement, Rebecca is a strong and passionate advocate on behalf of her clients. She is a skilled litigator who has experience handling complex financial matters and custody cases from inception to conclusion.
Rebecca prides herself on client relations, recognizing that when people are going through a divorce it is likely one of the most difficult times they will go through. Therefore, Rebecca is extremely attentive to clients and readily available to them. She walks them through the process step-by-step, and keeps them thoroughly informed throughout their case. She takes the time to get to know her clients, which she believes leads to a better result because she has a thorough understanding of their concerns and goals.
Rebecca is recognized as a Super Lawyer in the 2017 to 2020 New York Metro Super Lawyers®. She was recognized as a Rising Star in the 2013 to 2016 New York Metro Super Lawyers®. Rebecca was also selected by The Best Lawyers in America (2021 Edition) for her work in Family Law.
- New York Women's Bar Association (Matrimonial and Family Law Committee)
- New York State Bar Association
- "Women & Wealth: Planning Challenges and Strategies for Female Clients," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc., September 2019
- "Prenups 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, January 2019.
- "What Therapists Need to Know About Tying and Untying the Knot," William Alanson White Institute Couples Therapy Training and Education Program, May 2018.
- "Untying the Knot: Mat Law 101," Moses & Singer LLP CLE Program, April 2018.
- "It's All About the Benjamins: What Advisors and Their Clients Should Know About the New Tax Act," Moses & Singer LLP/Marks Paneth LLP Program, March 2018.
- "Matrimonial Planning After the TCJA of 2017," LISI Webinar, February 2018.
- "Family Law and Family Dynamics: All About Prenups," Moses & Singer LLP, October 2017.
- "The Gray Divorce: Special Considerations for Divorcing After 50," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc. CLE Program, September 2017.
- "Trusts: Planning and Drafting for Divorce," Shenkman Law Webinar, June 2017.
- "Protecting Trust Assets from Divorce - From Prenups to Self-Settled Trusts," Anti-Defamation League, May 2017.
- "Pre and Post-Nup Clauses to Address Trust Issues," Shenkman Law Webinar, March 2017.
- "Until Death or Divorce Do We Part," American Bar Association Real Property Trusts and Estates Section Group Call, June 2016.
- "Till Death Do Us Part: Marriage, Divorce, Prenups & Estate Administration," New York State Society of CPAs Trust & Estate Taxation Conference, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Citrin Cooperman, December 2015.
- "'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part," Oppenheimer & Co. Inc., November 2015.
- "Everything a Financial Planner Needs to Know About Marriage and Divorce," New York State Society of CPAs Financial Planning Conference, July 2015.
- "What To Do Before and After You Say I Do," AXA Advisors Annual LGBT Summit, June 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," Estate Planning Council of New York City, Estate Planners' Day, April 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," February 2015.
- "Love, Death and Divorce: Integrating Trusts & Estates, Matrimonial Law and Financial Planning," November 2014.
- Family Court Review Journal
- Moot Court Association
- Quoted, "21 of the Weirdest Prenup Demands Lawyers Have Ever Seen," Cosmopolitan, October 2019.
- Quoted, "Thinking About Ending Your Marriage? You Might Want To Talk To A Divorce Lawyer First," Refinery29, May 2019.
- Quoted, "How Wendy Williams Is Quickly Untangling Kevin Hunter From Her Life After Filing For Divorce," E-News, April 2019.
- Author, "Divorce & The Next Generation," Divorce Magazine, May 2019.
- Co-Author: "Do Prenuptial Agreements Hold Up?," December 2018.
- Co-Author: "Prenup Tutorial: A Survey of Recent Case Law." New York Law Journal, July 2018.
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, May 2018.
- Author: "Swipe Right for a Prenup," Bloomberg Tax - Daily Tax Report, April 2018.
- Co-Author: "Divorce Planning After the 2017 Tax Act," Bloomberg Tax Management Estates, Gifts and Trusts Journal, January 2018.
- Co-Author: "Ferri v. Powell-Ferri: A Critical Planning Case for Practitioners," The Matrimonial Strategist, December 2017.
- Co-author: "Parental Alienation During and After the Divorce," New York Law Journal, July 2017.
- Co-author: "Trust Issues: Pre- And Post-Nuptial Clauses," Part 2 of 2, Law Journal Newsletters, The Matrimonial Strategist, December 2016.
- Co-author: "Trust Issues: Pre- And Post-Nuptial Clauses," Part 1 0f 2, Law Journal Newsletters, The Matrimonial Strategist, November 2016.
- Co-author: "The Gray Divorce Phenomenon," New York Law Journal, July 2016.
- Co-author: "Coming to America - Love, Marriage and Immigration," The Tax Stringer - NYSSCPA's Online Tax Publication, June 2016.
- Hofstra University School of Law (J.D.)
- Emory University (B.A.)
- New York
- New Jersey
- Moses & Singer LLP Attorneys Achieve Super Lawyer 2021 Status
- Moses & Singer Congratulates Its Lawyers In Inclusion In Best Lawyers in America
- Moses & Singer Attorneys Included in the New York Metro Top Women Super Lawyers®
- Moses & Singer LLP Attorneys Achieve Super Lawyer 2020 Status
- Best Lawyers 2021 Lists Moses & Singer LLP Attorneys
- Rebecca A. Provder Quoted in Money.com on Funding for Divorce
- Rebecca A. Provder Quoted In NerdWallet Re: Being Your Financial Valentine
- Rebecca A. Provder Quoted In Cosmopolitan Re: Weirdest Prenup Demands
- Moses & Singer LLP Attorneys Achieve Super Lawyer Status
- Rebecca Provder Quoted By Refinery29
- Rebecca Provder Quoted By E! News
- Moses & Singer Attorneys Achieve Super Lawyer Status
- Moses & Singer Achieve Super Lawyers Status
- Moses & Singer Attorneys Achieve Top Women Super Lawyers Status
- Moses & Singer Attorneys Achieve Super Lawyers Status
- Super Lawyers Honors Moses & Singer Attorneys in 2015 New York Metro Edition
- Super Lawyers Honors Moses & Singer Attorneys in 2014 New York Metro Edition
- Moses & Singer Women Attorneys Featured in New York Times Magazine
- Super Lawyers Announces List Moses & Singer Attorneys
- Rebecca Provder To Be A Panelist On 'Divorce During a Pandemic'
- Legal Issues in Couples Cases
- Family Law and Family Dynamics: All About Prenups
- Trusts: Planning and Drafting for Divorce
- Protecting Trust Assets from Divorce - From Prenups to Self-Settled Trusts
- Pre and Post-Nup Clauses to Address Trust Issues Webinar
- Everything a Financial Planner Needs to Know About Marriage and Divorce
- What To Do Before and After You Say I Do
- The Evolution of Divorce for Wealthy Women
- Divorce & The Next Generation
- Do Prenuptial Agreements Hold Up?
- Prenup Tutorial: A Survey of Recent Case Law
- Swipe Right for a Prenup
- Divorce Planning After the 2017 Tax Act
- Ferri v. Powell-Ferri: A Critical Planning Case for Practitioners
- Parental Alienation During and After Divorce
- Trust Issues: Pre- And Post-Nuptial Clauses
- The Gray Divorce Phenomenon
- Coming to America - Love, Marriage and Immigration
- 'Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part
- What CPAs Need to Know about Tying and Untying the Knot
- New Spousal Support Guidelines & Other Changes in Matrimonial Law
- Exploring the Impact of Domestic Violence on Domestic Relations
- The Crossroads of Immigration and Family Law
- Before the Cake and the Wedding Dress: Couples Should Discuss Finances Before Saying I Do
- Godparents and Guardians: Your Baby's Significant Others
- Ethics in Family Law: Leading Lawyers on Guiding Clients Through Domestic Disputes in a Principled Manner (Inside the Minds)
- Current Trends in a Growth Area: Prenuptial Agreements
- Healthy New York: Extending Health Insurance Coverage to Young Adults in Divorce Settlement Agreements
- Wealth Preservation Advisor: An Estate Planning Update
"You are simply an amazingly wonderful human being! I am so blessed to have met you, really. Thank you for caring. I strongly feel people are put in our paths for a reason. You are one of them. You care, that in itself shows such character so many "attorneys" lack. It most certainly makes for a better one I feel. I know you have developed a thick skin, for you have said this to me especially in the field you are in, but I also know you're a human being who understands and helps client's such as myself feel we matter. Thank you for everything."
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“As sad as it is, I’m very relieved to finally have this behind me. I can’t thank you enough for all your help and guidance over the last several months. I really appreciate all of your time and effort spent on my behalf and fighting to get me the best settlement possible.”
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"I am still thankful for your advice from last summer; I am sure many others are similarly grateful."
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